The Book

Install the system. Run the upgrades.

ManOS distills the work into a sequence you can actually run: map your current code, retire what corrupts it, install upgrades, and integrate daily.

What you'll get

  • • A clear, repeatable sequence: map → delete → install → integrate.
  • • Tools for clarity, presence, and execution under pressure.
  • • Relationship interface that builds trust instead of drama.
  • • 30-day integration cycles that turn knowing into doing.

Who it's for

Men who have "done the things" and want a life that actually works—on the inside, in their relationships, and in the work that matters.

How to use it

  • • Read a chapter, run the field notes the same day.
  • • Track your first non-negotiable for 30 days.
  • • Upgrade one module per month: values, purpose, connection, vitality, leadership.

Table of contents (abridged)

  1. When the life you built stops working
  2. Running dad's code
  3. Learning to read yourself
  4. Unlocking your core values
  5. The stories we tell ourselves
  6. Making peace with your feelings
  7. How to actually connect
  8. Building real friendships
  9. Getting your money right
  10. Taking care of the machine
  11. Finding what actually matters
  12. Leading by example, not title
  13. The fast-fix toolbox
  14. The 30-day reboot
  15. What your kids will remember

Read a sample

Start with the opening chapter and the first Field Notes. If the system makes sense on the page, it will make sense in your day.